how you socialize IRL

mlLkm4n · 11-19-2008, 09:18 PM

the line is continually getting blurred but i have to admit that in real-life if my social tribe ever discovered the contents of my browser's history it'd alter my relationship for good. i still have a lot of fun w/ them but don't nearly hang out w/ them as much as i used to but i find myself at a loss of words in attempting to explain this fascination we all share.

i really miss my early years in junior high when talking/flirting with girls was so much easier and natural, this was before anything was about sex but ya know what i'm getting at. high school was a lot different, but still i miss the feeling of school starting and not knowing who would end up in one of my classes. once you get to college socializing changes for good, it's like everyone loses this trust with one another and flirting is considered childish.

while i hang out here a lot i find it a lot harder to make the sorta connections i once made w/ other girls/women (woman; even if i despise the sound of the word)
otherwise whenever i go out and party i just play my role until i findi that someone who makes me feel like a kid again.

FuzzyBunny · 11-19-2008, 09:26 PM

Ah. I hang out with similarly minded folk. They know what I like, and I know what they like. I'm a huge geek, so people outside of my social circle are rather...difficult to date.

Pruvmerong · 11-19-2008, 09:28 PM

I recently moved from California to Arkansas. And let's just say that I want nothing to do with the local wildlife. Thankfully, I commute to Memphis to go to school, although it's difficult to maintain friendships with people who live 2 hours away from me.

mlLkm4n · 11-19-2008, 09:34 PM

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mlLkm4n · 11-19-2008, 09:37 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by FuzzyBunny

Ah. I hang out with similarly minded folk. They know what I like, and I know what they like. I'm a huge geek, so people outside of my social circle are rather...difficult to date.

ya i know what ya mean, like before in high-school our group was consisted of like 7 ppl and it was cool cuz we generally hung out w/ everyone and partied really hard. yet as of now, it's like we have no real good reason to hang out cuz we have no where to perform. as of now, there is only like 4 of us left since the other 3 went their seperate ways; unfortunately those other 3 were the ones we had the most fun with. yet at the same time picked on the most, even if we all do our fair share of making fun, the ignorants will always hold alpha status over the group, which has made me an easier target. ;_;

FuzzyBunny · 11-21-2008, 09:03 PM

Oh yeah, I understand that. I haven't seen some of my friends in ages...and they were great!

cyal8erloser · 11-22-2008, 06:42 AM

My IRL chat policy is simple.
STFU and GTH away from me.

I'm anti-social in every way and form and will not hesitate to hate you and denounce you bothering to say a word to me. I in no way shape or form wish to deal with other people, and I'm more than glad to have an extreme dislike and distrust of others. We meet in RL, you will not find a buddy or friend much to your liking. If anything, I'd foster and encourage your hatred of me and move you to avoid me if I haven't already scared you off.

And that's the honest truth.

11-19-2008, 09:18 PM	#1 (permalink)
mlLkm4n Beginner Join Date: Feb 2007 Posts: 11 Images: 12 Points: 1,211.85 Bank: 220.38 Total Points: 1,432.23 Donate	how you socialize IRL the line is continually getting blurred but i have to admit that in real-life if my social tribe ever discovered the contents of my browser's history it'd alter my relationship for good. i still have a lot of fun w/ them but don't nearly hang out w/ them as much as i used to but i find myself at a loss of words in attempting to explain this fascination we all share. i really miss my early years in junior high when talking/flirting with girls was so much easier and natural, this was before anything was about sex but ya know what i'm getting at. high school was a lot different, but still i miss the feeling of school starting and not knowing who would end up in one of my classes. once you get to college socializing changes for good, it's like everyone loses this trust with one another and flirting is considered childish. while i hang out here a lot i find it a lot harder to make the sorta connections i once made w/ other girls/women (woman; even if i despise the sound of the word) otherwise whenever i go out and party i just play my role until i findi that someone who makes me feel like a kid again. Last edited by mlLkm4n : 11-19-2008 at 09:36 PM.

11-19-2008, 09:26 PM	#2 (permalink)
FuzzyBunny Experienced Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Burien Posts: 31 Images: 1 Points: 163.24 Bank: 815.29 Total Points: 978.52 Donate	Ah. I hang out with similarly minded folk. They know what I like, and I know what they like. I'm a huge geek, so people outside of my social circle are rather...difficult to date. __________________

11-19-2008, 09:28 PM	#3 (permalink)
Pruvmerong Spam Slayer™ Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: /root/hentai Posts: 207 Points: 146.69 Bank: 7,074.31 Total Points: 7,221.00 Donate	I recently moved from California to Arkansas. And let's just say that I want nothing to do with the local wildlife. Thankfully, I commute to Memphis to go to school, although it's difficult to maintain friendships with people who live 2 hours away from me. __________________ Current Number of DaT Girls in My Harem: 3 http://bleakcosmos.nxserve.net Last edited by Pruvmerong : 11-19-2008 at 09:30 PM.

11-19-2008, 09:34 PM	#4 (permalink)
mlLkm4n Beginner Join Date: Feb 2007 Posts: 11 Images: 12 Points: 1,211.85 Bank: 220.38 Total Points: 1,432.23 Donate	-reposted- Last edited by mlLkm4n : 11-19-2008 at 09:39 PM.

11-21-2008, 09:03 PM	#6 (permalink)
FuzzyBunny Experienced Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Burien Posts: 31 Images: 1 Points: 163.24 Bank: 815.29 Total Points: 978.52 Donate	Oh yeah, I understand that. I haven't seen some of my friends in ages...and they were great! __________________

11-22-2008, 06:42 AM	#7 (permalink)
cyal8erloser Banned Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Fissure of Woe Posts: 389 Images: 1735 Points: 31,778.92 Bank: 7,136.55 Total Points: 38,915.47 Donate	My IRL chat policy is simple. STFU and GTH away from me. I'm anti-social in every way and form and will not hesitate to hate you and denounce you bothering to say a word to me. I in no way shape or form wish to deal with other people, and I'm more than glad to have an extreme dislike and distrust of others. We meet in RL, you will not find a buddy or friend much to your liking. If anything, I'd foster and encourage your hatred of me and move you to avoid me if I haven't already scared you off. And that's the honest truth.

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